My son and I have been talking a lot about choices lately. A few nights ago we were sitting at the dinner table. Our conversation sounded a little something like this: "Logan, you need to sit down and eat your dinner. You don't have a choice." "Yes, I do Mommy. I have agency.
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When your child was born did you ever imagine you would be a single parent? In a country with a divorce rate like ours it almost seems silly that we didn't plan for this possibility.
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In the hustle and bustle of my busy life sometimes I forget to take care of myself. Everyday it seems like my to do list gets longer and longer and time for me gets pushed farther and farther to the bottom.
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27 Jan 2012 05:39 PM
Recently I was reminded again of how many tough decisions we have to make as single parents. A friend of mine posted on her Facebook about how guilty she was feeling because her daughter had to have a tooth pulled because she had to keep putting off getting it fixed.
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26 Jan 2012 10:37 PM
Have you told your children that you love them today? We do things everyday to show our kids that we love them, but sometimes making a warm meal and doing their laundry isn't enough. Kids need constant reminders that we love and care about them.
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26 Jan 2012 07:26 PM
I have such an incredible bond with my daughter and I'm so thankful for that. Hailey even tells people that I am her best friend. I feel like we can talk about anything and we have had some pretty awkward conversations so that must be true.
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26 Jan 2012 06:17 PM
As a parent some of my favorite times are when Hailey is sleeping. I know how that sounds but who doesn't love a sleeping baby?
When I became a single parent I lived for bedtime. I was just figuring out how to get through a day by myself and bedtime was a reprieve.
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25 Jan 2012 09:03 PM
Hailey is getting her first apartment. It kind of freaks me out. I've always tried to be here when she's home, I've never even gone away for the weekend and left her alone. Now she is going to be living on her own.
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24 Jan 2012 10:26 PM
Divorce is never something to take lightly. In fact, I once had a professor who said there are only three valid reasons to get divorced; she called them the three A's. It hit me so strongly that I have never forgotten it.
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24 Jan 2012 10:58 AM
Do you use your child as a pawn in your divorce? I have tried so hard not to do that but I'm sure at times I have been guilty of it as well. We are all human and we all do things that in hindsight we realize we shouldn't have done.
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