Alone on Halloween?

As a single parent, when little trick-or-treaters show up at your door and your own little trick-or-treater is away at his other parent’s for the night it can be especially difficult. Before you became a parent you dreamed of nights like this, never expecting to miss out on them every other year. I have been lucky enough that I have always gotten to see Logan on the holidays. His dad and I have always split them so that Logan had the opportunity to see both of us on every single holiday, but from the sound of it, I may not … Continue reading

We Cannot Live on Love Alone

During my first year of marriage I wasn’t as happy as I should have been. Despite the supposed “honeymoon period,” I often felt listless and depressed. It took me a while to figure out why. Jonathan has an excellent job with the government. Unfortunately it’s located in a rural area, so most of the jobs are related to the military base that his position serves. Few jobs exist outside of the technology industry. Basically, my plan to start freelance work once we had children, so I could stay at home with them, had to be bumped up a few years … Continue reading

Alone for the Holidays

This time of year can be emotional for many single parents. Having to share the holidays can be difficult for both the parents and the child. I remember the night my ex husband left. The very first thing that came to mind was not having my son Christmas morning. I still get a pit in my stomach just thinking about it. I firmly believe that this is the absolute hardest part of being divorced. One of the greatest joys of being a parent is waking up Christmas morning to see the look on your children’s faces when they see their … Continue reading

Top Tips for Holidays with Children with Special Needs from HopeLights Media

HopeLights Media, creators of the only magazine for special needs children has offered tips for making the best of this holiday season. The holidays are stressful for everyone, but for families of children with special needs it can be exhausting and sometimes disastrous. A little planning can help, according to the folks at HopeLights. 1. Make a Visual Schedule. If your child is used to a routine, stick to it as much as possible during the holidays. When your child knows a change is coming in advance, it will be easier for her to accept. Keeping the structure and consistency … Continue reading

Help Your Family Get Along Over the Holidays

The holidays are upon us, and that means there will be several family gatherings for you to attend. If you are like many people, you may be experiencing feelings of intense dread when you think about having to spend time with certain members of your family. This is especially true if your family happens to be dysfunctional, and prone to arguments. What can you do to survive these gatherings? Here is some advice to help you connect with your relatives, even when you don’t particularly want to. If your family is especially large, what might be intended as a simple … Continue reading

Home Blog Month in Review: October

As I sit here looking out my window at the backyard, the birds are hovering in the pine tree against a strong wind and steady rain. The temperature is chilly today, and the calendar reminds me that we have left October behind. October 1st Buy a Home for $1.75 It seems that the housing crisis has made some interesting news lately. Home Month in Review: September 2008 Has the weather turned cooler now that September has passed? Pretty soon, it will be time to get that heat turned back on! Meanwhile, check out all of the articles that were posted … Continue reading

“Aging Out”: No Home for the Holidays

In this season where so many of us try to go “home for the holidays”, an often-invisible but increasingly large group of young adults literally has no home to go home to. A report released this year by the Pew Charitable Trusts and the Casey Youth Opportunities Initiative says that the number of children “aging out” of foster care (turning 18 before being adopted or safely reunited with family members) has increased by 41% in the last ten years. Picture a teen-ager you care about—a son or daughter, nephew or niece, neighbor, supermarket clerk, whomever. Now imagine that on his … Continue reading

When Your Kids go to the “Other House” for the Holidays

For the first couple years after my divorce–the holidays were definitely hard for me! I realize that there was really nothing unique or original about my situation, but that did not make it any less painful or difficult to adjust to. I agreed that I would have my kids on Christmas Eve and then they would spend Christmas Day with their father. That first long, lonely Christmas day was horrible! But, over the years, I have adjusted and have found new ways to celebrate the holidays, and keep my mood up all the while… Sharing our kids can be tough … Continue reading

Updating the Living Room during the Holidays

Even if you love the look of your living room, love your furniture, you may find yourself wishing you could do a little updating. While many of us would rather not spend money on re-decorating right now since we’re busy shopping for Christmas, we may not be ready for a complete interior redesign either. Rearranging furniture is a job! Well, you may be able to rearrange just a few things to create a fresh look and feel. This is actually a good time for it, since you’ll probably be doing some rearranging to make room for the Christmas tree. Even … Continue reading

Military Preparations for the Beginning & End of the Holidays

With the holidays upon us there are many things you should know before going on one. The first one is always make sure you have permission to go, yes even families have to have the okay. Well, not the families per say but the marine. Never forget to get that permission before leaving town, I’ve seen too many young marine families get in trouble for not doing this. If you do get permission make sure you will be able to make it back on time. For a few more traveling tips don’t forget to read: Holiday Travel on the Road … Continue reading