After a divorce it is normal to feel a void in your life, to feel that bitter emptiness of what once was. You want someone by your side to share in your child’s triumphs. You want someone to turn to when you’ve had a long day. Loneliness becomes your constant companion. For me, this was my downfall. No one likes to feel lonely. I was vulnerable and alone and looking for something to fill that void. I became an easy target because I let my guard down. Does it ever feel like men have this sixth sense? At least the … Continue reading →

Sometimes as single mothers I think we are expected to be Superwoman. Until now we have always shared the responsibilities with someone else, now the responsibility lies solely on us. Motherhood is a lot to take on for anyone, but to do it alone can be beyond overwhelming. No matter how involved your ex is you are still expected to take on both responsibilities in the home. If the toilet gets clogged, you have to take care of it on your own, there’s no one to do it for you. If the car breaks down, you have to find a … Continue reading →